When a person was betrayed under the spell of love, one will be suffering in a total anguish and one may get too depress over such pain, regardless which gender. Some may go through the thoughts of committing suicide when such drastic change happened, such as losing the other half of his/her life. However, those who are strong enough to stand up again will understand that what don’t break them will make them stronger.
The thing is after going through the entire break up cycle and having their ex asking for a chance back is something that I find totally disturbing. Why? Well, the first thing that came into my mind was, your bf/gf is not a “thing” to have and dump just like that. I wonder why one didn’t try or do their best to care and appreciate what they have but yet when one realized what they’ve lost, then they wanted it back.
Either way, the decision is going to be hard. But one thing is for sure, if you do go back into the relationship, you will be going back into a relationship that is cracked in a way, it''s not the same as before anymore. Even if its patched, there's gonna be lots of scratches and the trust is no longer there. And then, the pain will be tat much more.
Just my 2 cents..
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2 comments:
I think if your relationship break up was based on a misunderstanding rather than an infidelity, then the trust will continue to be there since it was not lost in the first place. If you partner mis-read the situation, then of course that is a big mistake, but not grounds to right off the relationship. If he / she accepts that he / she misunderstood your intentions then you should be able to mend this. Its only when there is a real indfidelity, thats when trust can be a problem. But reading your blog, this doesnt seem to be the case. Sounds like a big misunderstanding which can easily be solved.
Hi anon,
thanks for ur comments.. and i am so curious to know who u are.. to u, it may be easily solved.. to me, for my partner to doubt my integrity, its something i cant handle..
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