Anyone who has ever been in a loving relationship can tell that it is not always birds singing and sunshine. There are occasionally those stormy days. Being in a loving relationship means that both people love one another as they love their self. It takes both of those people to make that relationship work, just one person is not strong enough to do it all.
To make the other person feel love we need to appreciate them just as you feel loved when you are appreciated. Each of us feels appreciated differently. We feel love from a compliment, a kind act, a gift, physical affection, or by spending time with the other.
And if the other party don seem to give a damn abt the relationship, time to give them the flick..
Oh mein gott!! Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love, that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you.
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5 comments:
I love that statement of yours saying that when you lose someone today, someone better will come to you tomorrow :)
oh mein gott!
thanks michy..
love is never a bed of roses.. just like life.
to a certain extent, i agree that a relationship needs 2 person to make it work. but sometimes, 1 party is putting a tinny winy bit more effort compare to the other. it happens. no matter what u think or what u do.
at times even the relationship is heading towards down under, one party would definitely want to try his /her best effort to salvage it. while the other party just either pretend he/ she din see it, or just stand there and see the salvaging.
maybe it is cruel to do so,to see/ not see something happening and pretend all is okay. and stupid, to do the salvaging. but it is not easy to see something u put in effort and den it goes down the drain. it just sucks.. and it hurts..
it is not always worth salvaging, but is still worth trying. at least u know u tried ur best.
crying sometimes doesnt cure anything. it doesnt help too. it just makes u more tired. more drained from the crying.
only time could heal all wounds.. not always true.. but still it helps.
omg kenny.. u gv such a good advices...
thanks!
haa..
i dun really give good advice..
am jus speaking from my own experience.. or from friends' experience.
and hopefully would be able to help others. dun wish to see others trotting down the same path as me..
be strong.. and it will pass.. thou it will take time..
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