Sunday, September 7, 2008

Another rambling

I see life from a different aspect now, I loved and wasn’t loved, I didn’t love and was loved… I realized it is not easy to keep in touch with people when the commons that connects us has broken. Take my friends at schjool. Most of them are friends simply because we are classmates or we were forced to be in one study group. We mostly do not have anything in common besides the major we study.

It is kind of sad because I got to know them over few years and as a class, we were such amazing people… I had the best times mocking teachers, mocking at other students and stuffs.. Thinking about that and losing them, is just sad.

You later realize that they (friends,) became your family. Because you were far from yours and you got used to seeing your friends daily, over coffee, exams, a movie, gathering or even partying out like there’s no tomorrow. Everyone of us has a different character, from the weirdo to the metro to the dancer… all different! until we start sharing something in common.

Overall, Friendships are fragile. One disagreement can be like a pair of scissors can cut them. And the sad part is that everyone knows that but decide to let the scissors cut anyway..

2 comments:

The Pondering Introvert said...

I second that, friendships are indeed fragile, it has both ways when disagreement takes place, either both will become ever closer like there is a blood connection, or the friendship will fail and fall miserably and can never be mended anymore. It's as fragile as a glass, it's that easy to break

Alvin Iwan said...

but the most annoying part is, it NEVER last...