Some people I know really have this issue with friendship. Who are their friends? Why do they have to lie about who they are friends with? Why are they hiding it and then make up stories of how much they fight or piss off this person, and yet, they are buddy buddy and hang out together all the time. Why is friendship becoming a secrecy? It was usually the boyfriend/girlfriend scenario that people tried to deny all the time for so many reasons that was “understood.”
I just don’t get it. You are friends with this person, don’t lie to me about it and say you are not or you are fighting or whatever thinking I will get hurt by your “friendship” with them. I honestly don’t care. Lying about it makes me wonder if you lie to others about me being a friend to you as well or you even consider me as one.
I wish people learn this crazy wild idea that they tend to ignore all the time; HONESTY!
Dammit!
4 comments:
that's really weird. it's almost as if they're ashamed of the friend. it's not like a underground relationship or something.
seems i am always the one dishing advices.. think cos i am dang free.. that explains the blog hopping, and poking my nose into pple's stuff.
anws, i aint the best person to comment on honesty shite. cos i aint the most honest person around. though i like my friends and significant other to be truthful. i tries my best to be honest.
yes, the truth hurts, but i rather have it than a bunch of lies. cos u need to tell one lie after another to cover up. and it just snowballs into one thousand and one lies. and i hate that.
but sometimes, honesty is not always the best policy. i had learn it first-hand. sometimes gotta lie abit here and there, a white lie maybe. maybe to not want to complicate an already mess.
ignorance is sometimes bliss. what u dun know wont hurt that much.
is a oxymoron. gotta live with it.
thus my notion, act blur, live longer.
exactly jason, it puzzled me too and pissed me off too
oh my.
yeah.. i agreed with u. sometimes its best to knw lesser things...
sigh.. less heartpain
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