I was listening to the song "Gold Digger" on youtube. The song was nice. It was a great tune. I felt like dancing while standing despite me havin a fever.. Hahaha! Oh ya, So I sat down thinking about it. Why are girls stereotyped as gold diggers? Aren’t guys sometimes too?. I know that girls are much better at it. They are pros at using guys for money, but for me I can never ever in a million years want a woman for her money. I am way past that point. I was never at that point.
I like working for myself. Actually, anyone giving me a gift would make my day! If I want something, I don’t wait for someone to get it for me, I get it myself! I make my own decisions and I don’t rely on anyone! I never did and I never will!
I have talked to some guys who do complain about the fact that a girl may have agreed to get engaged to them because of the job and money they have. That’s it, and once a better (richer) guy comes along, they leave the poor guy hanging like he was a worn out pair of shoes! I seen it a lot!
It’s sad. This happens a lot in all societies. Girls are not innocent. I am not trying to bash girls, but I am stating the obvious. 50% of women only go after guys for their money! That’s it. And the girls who work for them selves and make a life for themselves are the ones who really don’t care too much about guys and are usually unsuccessful in keeping a relationship because they focus more on their career and life than worrying about a guy.
I just wish there was a good middle ground. No gold digging, and no full independence. I wish I can just merge the two together.
P.S: I will never be a gold digger. I am rich…. with self confidence.. muwahahahaaaa!
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8 comments:
I think I fail in this aspect = I dont know how to use guys for money and not feel about after that. To begin with, I dont even know the ways lolz. I fail in relationships, thats so true lolz .. but I am not 100% focus on my career lolz just that my focus isnt on guys :P
P.S: I will never be a gold digger. I am poor…. with self confidence.. muwahahahaaaa!
Instead of trying to hardsell myself in order to get marry to a rich guy, I prefer to be the rich woman myself.
=p
Wei.... someone's birthday is coming and I'm having headache what to buy lah.. Give me tips can?
(Bobby will be in Sg next month so I'm thinking to ask him to pass it to the birthday boy personally)
to michy,
hahahaa!
different girls different ways..
In fact, i have seen my share of girls who r really a gold digger.. hahahaha!
To Nonnie,
oh no oh no..
I m ok lah Nonnie...
Don need to waste $$$..
A card is enought to make my day.. REally...
heheheee!
hahaha i have seen them myself just that i prefer to be rich myself instead isnt it better buy things with your money feels more satisfied dont have to put up a mask and things like that
yesh..i agreed!
it feels nice to buy and own things using our own moolahs.. hahaha!
While there are some of them around, the number might not be as high as you think. Well, at least there's none in my circle. People do tend to complain more than talking about happy events in their life. That probably is the reason we hear about those unfortunate events more than the happy ones.
As for those dig and ditch people, I believe what goes around, comes around.
Came across your blog and yes i am the nosey person who read people's blog. You sound sad... :( Hope you will recover soon.... all the best to you
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